Well, you shouldn’t really be surprised to know by now that a lot of guys are only ever really going to be interested in hooking up. And if that’s your thing as well, that’s fine. Just make sure that you are clear and upfront about it at the start. You never want to be leading someone on. And you don’t want to be led on by any man either. If you’re looking for true love, you don’t want some guy to be playing you just to get into your pants.
But there are a lot of guys out there who will only wine and dine you until you give it up and actually give them what they want – your body. And once you do, they’re done with you. Once they’re tired of you, they will move on to another target. And you will be left trying to mend a broken heart.
That’s why you always want to make a conscious effort to keep yourself protected. Stay clear of the guys who are only looking to hook up with you. You always want to be with someone who is going to treat you seriously. You want to be with a man who is actually going to treat you with dignity. You want a man who won’t just be using you for your body.
And so at the earliest signs of danger, you need to make sure that you get out. Once you know that you’re dating a guy who only wants to hook up with you, then you need to call him out on it. If he doesn’t get serious with you, then dump him. Move on. Find someone better.
1. He is constantly surrounded by women.
He’s always just surrounded by women. It goes to show that he’s a player. He’s someone who always just wants to be keeping his options open. He sees women like their playthings.
2. He doesn’t really open up to you.
He doesn’t really like to open up to you. He always keeps to himself. He doesn’t say much to you. He doesn’t show that he’s comfortable with letting you get to know him better. That’s a sign that he’s not really emotionally invested in being with you in an intimate capacity.
3. He only ever really compliments you on your looks.
He only ever really compliments you about the way that you look. He never tells you that he thinks you’re talented. He doesn’t say anything to show that he admires your personality. Nope. He’s always just focused on how you look. And that means he only sees you as an object of visual pleasure.
4. He always just wants to stay in.
He’s always just interested in staying at home with you. He does this for a few reasons. For one, it allows him to get intimate with you right away. And two, he doesn’t have to show you off to the world and so he can still keep himself on the market.
5. He gets handsy right away.
A man can do a lot to mask his feelings with the words that he says. But he usually shows his true colors through his actions. And when he’s getting really handsy with you early on in your relationship, then you can really tell where his priorities lie at that point. You know that he just wants to start getting physical right away.
6. He just always agrees with everything you say.
You might think that it’s a good thing that he’s always just agreeing with everything that you say. But don’t be fooled. No two people are ever going to agree on everything in life. That is why if you notice him just agreeing with you all the time, you can know he’s being fake and he just wants something from you.
7. He doesn’t ask you serious questions about your life.
He doesn’t really ask you serious questions about your life. He’s always just keeping things light and casual. That means that he really isn’t interested in getting to know you. He’s not interested in exploring your personality more profoundly.
8. He doesn’t introduce you to his friends.
It should be really telling if he just doesn’t introduce you to his friends. That means that he doesn’t consider you important enough to actually be a permanent fixture in his life. He isn’t interested in integrating you within his social circle.
9. Foreplay is always really fast.
He always just rushes through foreplay. He wants to get to the point. He just wants what he really wants – sex.
10. Your instincts are telling you that something is really off.
And of course, you’re going to always have to listen to your gut whenever it’s trying to tell you that something is off. Your instincts are there to protect you. You have to make sure that you listen to them so that you don’t end up getting betrayed by your own feelings.