1. He treats you like a “last minute” option.
You’re not always going to be his first option. You’re not always going to be his priority. In fact, he only ever runs to you when there’s nothing else for him to do; when there’s no one else for him to turn to. You are a last resort in his eyes. It’s like he has to scrape the bottom of the barrel to be with you.
2. He only wants to ever have sex with you.
When you want to have a real relationship that you can really sustain for the rest of your lives, it’s going to have to be built on a foundation of love. And if you notice that he is more interested in your body than he is in your love, then you know that he doesn’t care much about you. He only cares about the sex.
3. He doesn’t introduce you to the important people in his life.
He doesn’t really try to expose you to his world. He doesn’t really want to merge lives with you in general. And that’s how you can tell that he doesn’t really think much of you. In fact, he thinks very little of you. He doesn’t deem you so important that he would want to introduce you to the closest people in his life.
4. He asks you for favors but he refuses to return them.
He doesn’t really make any effort to try to make your life easier. He has no problems with asking you for favors. He is never shy about asking you for help. But when it’s your turn to ask for help from him, you never feel like you can really rely on him. He’s not a very dependable person in your relationship at all.
5. You are always the one who initiates the conversations.
You never seem to be the one who gets the text messages out of the blue. You never get those sweet surprise phone calls from him. You are always the one who is making the effort in trying to get close to him. You are the one who is always trying to sustain conversations and discussions. You are the one who is heavily invested in forming a connection.
6. He doesn’t put in the effort to make you happy.
He doesn’t really feel compelled to put in the effort for your relationship. He doesn’t feel like he has to work hard to please you. In fact, he’s not really invested in your happiness at all. That’s how you can tell that he doesn’t really care much about you. That’s how you know that he isn’t really concerned about your feelings.
7. He doesn’t express an interest in your life.
He doesn’t ask you questions about your life. He doesn’t try to put in any effort into getting to know you better. He doesn’t really act at all curious about who you are or what makes you tick. He doesn’t really express much interest in your life. And another way to say that is that he just plainly doesn’t care about who you are as a person overall.
8. He treats you the same way that he does other people.
He doesn’t treat you in any special manner. He’s always treating you just like everyone else. He’s treating you like some random acquaintance. You might as well even be just a stranger to him with the way that he treats you. He doesn’t really act like he’s invested in having a special relationship with you.
9. He doesn’t make you feel like he’s protective of you.
He doesn’t make you feel like he’s looking out for you. You get the sense that he doesn’t really have your best interests in mind. You don’t think that you could ever rely on him to protect you from potential threats or harms. You don’t feel like he has your back at all because he doesn’t care much about you.
10. He doesn’t engage with you in talks about the future.
He doesn’t care about you because he’s not interested in working towards a shared future for the two of you. He’s merely content with what you have and who you are at present. He’s not all that interested in taking things to the next level with you.
11. He never picks up the check or sells out cash.
He always expects you to pay. He always expects you to be shelling out cash. He always expects you to be his personal piggy bank because he never wants to be spending money in you.
12. He avoids serious and deep discussions.
He doesn’t really seem interested in having a deep and serious connection with you because he avoids having serious discussions with you. He doesn’t really try to explore the depths of your personality because he really doesn’t think much of you or what you mean to him.