Is she about to leave you?
You will obviously be notified and informed of the reasons before your wife or girlfriend plans to leave you but you will wish you had seen it coming. Breakups hurt badly; it’s a universally known fact since love carries pain and heartbreak in its pockets. When she quietly decides that she is done with the relationship but is not yet ready to confront you about it or is hesitating for some other reason, she might unknowingly show some signs of disinterest that can help you smell what’s cooking.
Like we said, breaking up comes with a lot of pain so these premature signs of her leaving you anytime soon might buckle you up, mentally, for what’s coming up next, although we hope you never have to look for them.
1. When You’re The Last One To Know:
Like Enrique Iglesias hypothetically asked in his Ping Pong Song,
Do you know what it feels like to be the last one to know the lock on the door has changed?
You will know how it feels when your girlfriend/wife starts pulling away. Their good news will reach to you last of all and like average news. You will fall down on her priority list when she decides that telling you everything is not so important now.
2. When Sexy Talk isn’t Reciprocated:
When she comes out of the shower and you give her the sexy stare only to get ignored in reply. When you text her to tell her how you can’t wait to get home only to be shut down with a haha’ or so.
Her hesitation in this matter can mean a lot of things including this: she is planning to shut it all down once and for all, because hey, to be frank, sexy talk is what keeps us going, isn’t it?
3. She Changes:
Remember when she used to say I’d never go to a mall for just window shopping but is now canceling on you to go window shopping with her friend? That’s called avoiding’, something that people do when they don’t want to be with you. In a nutshell, you will observe her doing absurd things; things she never did before just for the sake of keeping a distance from you.
4. She Really, Actually Changes:
Those were her habits changing but if she, as a person, acts differently then something is fishy. If she was the cheery kind who lit up at the mere thought of taking a light walk on the beach or visiting a family friend who has a cute dog but nothing makes her dance around now as long as you are around, she has obviously something serious going on her mind. It can be called the quiet before the storm.