Relationships are no joking business. They’re very complex and they have many layers to them. A lot of immature and inexperienced couples often get blindsided by how difficult it really is to sustain a relationship. They think that so as long as they stay in love with one another, things are always going to turn out alright. But the more experienced couples know that that isn’t necessarily always going to be the case. It’s important to keep in mind that a relationship is going to be composed of two very complex and unique individuals who carry individual personalities that often clash with one another.
And when you get that clash in a relationship, it just makes everything even more complicated than it already is. Whenever couples go through trials and tribulations in their relationships, it’s either they end up becoming further apart or they get stronger as a couple. And it’s the couples who are able to handle difficulties and challenges well that are the ones who usually find a way to make their relationships last until forever. One often overlooked the aspect of maintaining a relationship with someone is a couple’s sex life. In this modern age, sex is becoming more and more important for couples to maintain intimacy and passion in a relationship.
It’s especially important for MEN in relationships. There’s no denying that men are more obsessed with sex than women are. Its how they’re wired. It’s how they’re programmed. It’s just how their DNA is formed. Men are going to be more serious about sex than women are. And sometimes, that can spell trouble for women. As a woman, you might not be paying too much attention to your man’s sexual demeanour and habits. But you have to know that how he acts in the bedroom can be very telling. A man’s sexual outlook and demeanour can reveal a lot about how he feels about a particular person or a relationship.
So if you notice that your man’s sexual drive is starting to diminish in your relationship, that’s not something that you can just ignore. And if you’re curious to why things have turned out that way, then this article is for you. Here are some probable reasons as to why he’s getting bored with having sex.
1. There is a general lack of physical intimacy and affection in the relationship as a whole.
If your man starts to feel like you aren’t really being affectionate with him anymore, then he’s going to start to lose that lustre for being affectionate with you as well. You don’t really kiss anymore. You don’t hug each other goodbye. You don’t cuddle in bed. You don’t really express your love through physically intimate ways. You are both letting your physical forms of stimulation die and it’s slowly killing your sex life – and it’s killing your emotional bond and connection with one another as well.
2. Something seems to be missing in the relationship.
Something is missing. He’s not happy with the way that things are in a relationship. He’s feeling discontent. He’s feeling frustrated. He’s feeling unaccomplished and unfulfilled. All of these negative feelings are making it more and more difficult for him to actually get in the mood for sex. It’s slowly killing his sex drive.
3. He is dealing with his own personal demons that are only fueling his insecurities and
He can’t bring himself to want to have sex with you if he’s far too insecure. He can’t convince himself of being sexy or sensual because his fears and insecurities are eating away at his insides. Being able to have a strong sex drive always relies on a certain level of confidence – and he might be having some confidence issues right now.
4. He has fallen in love with someone else.
This is probably the most heartbreaking item on this list, but it happens way too often in relationships. You have to consider the possibility that your man has fallen in love with someone else, and that’s the reason why you both haven’t been having an active sex life as of late. He can’t bring himself to have sex with someone he’s not in love with.
5. He is preoccupied with other things in life.
Maybe he’s busy. Maybe he’s dealing with a lot of problems at work. Maybe the toxic environment at home is really stressing him out. Whatever the case, his problems are really keeping him from getting into the mood with you. And your sex life is suffering for it.
6. He feels like you’re not into him because you lack initiative and enthusiasm.
You have rarely ever shown him any signs of initiative or enthusiasm for sex, and so he feels like you aren’t attracted to him. He doesn’t want to have to be the one who always initiates sex. He doesn’t want to always be the one who makes the effort in the relationship.