By the time you’re done with him, he isn’t going to want to waste any more time. He’s going to want seconds almost immediately. He’s going to want to get right back in there with you. You have to know that kissing can have substantially different effects on men and women. A lot of men will put a lot more emotional weight and prominence behind kissing whereas men will tend to take a more casual and physical approach to it. You have to keep in mind that a lot of it has to do with biology. When a woman is locked in a kiss, it’s the easiest way to get her aroused; the fastest way to get her into the mood for sensuality.
That’s why it’s always advisable for a lot of men to spend lots of time kissing women before sex because that’s going to make the sexual experience a lot more amazing and mind-blowing. However, not a lot of men know that. Not a lot of men will consider the importance of kissing in a relationship, or kissing before sex. And that’s when it’s your job as a woman to make him see the importance of it. It’s your job to convince him that kissing is amazing if it’s going to be done right. You have to be able to entice him with your lips.
There’s no denying the emotional impact that comes with sharing a kiss with the person you love. But sometimes, your man is going to need a little reminder every now and then. But if you want to make sure that he’s never going to take your kisses for granted ever again, then there are a few techniques that you could try out to make him obsess over you.
1. Make sure that you are kissable first.
You want to make sure that the kissing experience is as memorable and as pleasurable as possible. And the only way you can do that is if you really pay attention to the littlest details. You really need to make sure that you have all bases covered. Make sure that your breath is smelling fresh and minty; no one likes to kiss anyone with garlic breath. Make sure that your lips are moisturized and smooth. Chapped lips may wreck the overall experience. It’s the little stuff these that really make a difference.
2. Take your time with it and don’t rush through anything.
Kissing shouldn’t have to be like sex where it’s just bam – bam – bam all of the time. You need to take things slow. Really take your time with it. There is no orgasm when it comes to kissing so you don’t really have to be rushing anything. You need to take your time and move very slowly. Be very deliberate and delicate with your movements. Be passionate but also make sure that you are being gentle with one another. Try your best to savour every little aspect of your make-out session.
3. Mix things up to keep it interesting.
Don’t be so content with just a few random pecks on the lips. Learn to really play with one another. There are many nuances to a good kiss and it’s more than just merely brushing your lips against one another’s. Try to experiment a little bit. Play around with your tongues and your teeth. You can incorporate some serious licking in there. You can also add in some playful biting if the both of you are going to be into it. It’s really all a matter of figuring out what both of you like and having a set of moves that the both of you can really rely on. It’s a lot like sex in that manner.
4. Make use of your hands to spice it up a little bit.
Don’t be afraid to make use of your hands. You can’t just be so content to keep your hands on the side. Your hands can’t be mere spectators. Let them in the game to spice things up. Making use of your hands effectively can really enhance the entire experience as a whole. It can really make everything much more interesting. It’s also a great way to stimulate one another. Maybe you can rub your hands on his chest or you can pull lightly on his air.
5. Kissing doesn’t always have to be done on the lips.
Don’t be so boxed into a certain way of kissing. You can always experiment by going away from traditional methods. Go ahead and kiss his neck, his chest, his cheeks. Kissing doesn’t always have to be relegated to a lip on lip action. The more you mix it up, the less predictable you become.
6. Really put some purpose into every little aspect of your kiss.
Really make sure you mean it. Put some meaning and emotion behind your kiss. You can’t just be treating it like some kind of physical activity. Let him feel your emotions through the movement of your lips. Make him understand just how important a kiss is to you.