Relationships can be really weird and mysterious sometimes. There are times wherein they can strike you when you aren’t really expecting them. And then there will be times wherein you will actively pursue love without really having any real shot at finding it. So consider yourself lucky if you do happen to find the love of your life and get into a relationship with them. It can be something that happens almost instantaneously even. It could be something as simple as locking eyes with a stranger from across the room.
It could be a casual introduction made by a mutual friend. You meet someone for the first time and you know that there’s some kind of spark there that you need to see through. You know that it’s the kind of spark that you can’t just ignore. It’s not the kind of spark that you can just turn a blind eye to. It can be a completely random moment in your life – but that doesn’t diminish its significance. Its randomness is going to seem so serendipitous. It might feel like fate is on your side and destiny is writing out a love story for you. You might not even really believe in destiny but you won’t be able to ignore all of the consecutive coincidences that needed to have been fulfilled to get you where you are. These seeming “coincidences” will definitely be enough to overturn all your beliefs.
There are some people who think that fate is something that you make for yourself. They say that you can’t play the role of a spectator in your own life. You have to be going out and taking an active role in shaping the life that you have. There are those who think that you really need to go out and take chances in life in order to make things happen. You actually need to go out and stack the deck to your favor. You need to put a lot of effort into making sure that your life turns out the way that you want it to – and that includes love. There are those who say that if you want love in your life, you need to go out and get it.
When you focus on building yourself as a human being, then you are essentially increasing your chances of actually finding the love of your life. It’s already known that love isn’t something that comes to you when you’re not ready for it. And that’s why you always have to be working at putting yourself in the right position to welcome love into your life. You have to be going out and meeting more people and exposing yourself to more perspectives. You need to actually put yourself out there and make yourself available. You need to put yourself in positions of vulnerability. You need to make sure that you are making yourself ready for the right person to just come along.
In some rare instances, there are two people who find one another after spending such a long time of trying to find the perfect relationship. And when these two people get together, the heat of their love can feel incredibly strong. It can feel very intense. These are two people who have gone through so much before they walked into each other’s lives. They’ve been going through some tough trials and they’ve been suffering through substandard relationships for so long. Now, these two people feel like they actually have something they can work with. They know that they have something special on their plate and they don’t want to take it for granted. And so they lose themselves in the relationship and each other. The bond that they have can heighten over time. However, it can also get to a point where they place too much pressure in one another and they end up having the relationship implode on them as a result.
And it’s always unfortunate whenever a relationship that looks like it’s perfect actually has to draw to a close. Everything just seemed so ideal and perfect at the time. Sure, it had its flaws, but no one could have ever expected it all to come crashing down on them in the end. But that’s just the thing about love. It throws curve balls all of the time and you’re just going to have to roll with the punches.
You might choose to believe in fate and destiny or you might not. But whatever the case, you have to acknowledge the truth that just because something looks good on paper doesn’t mean that it’s all going to turn out the way that you want them to. You are still going to have to rely on things that are beyond your control. And when it’s meant to be, it’s going to happen.